Cynthia wrote this beautiful article that graced the pages of multiple newspapers in Utah! Thanks Cynthia! Miss you and the big guy. See you two soon enough
link: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/700045605/On-a-crosscountry-ride-of-his-life-Moms-got-bikers-back.html?pg=1
DUCK CREEK, Kane County — Kevin Johnson was just 14 years old when he watched his mother die from breast cancer.
Even though she could barely speak because of fluid buildup in her lungs, he remembers well the last words she uttered to him: "No matter how bad things get, never give up." And then, "Always remember me."
That was 11 years ago. Today, those words motivate Johnson, 25, as he bikes his way across the country — from California to Virginia — to remember her. He wears her name on the back of his jersey — along with the names of friends who have lost someone to cancer — while raising money for breast-cancer research.
Somewhere on a rural highway in Kane County during an 84-mile jaunt last week, Johnson ran out of water. Seeing no traffic in sight but a lone recreational vehicle, he flagged it down. He was graciously given water and even Gatorade by a friendly couple.
Johnson takes it all in stride as part of his cross-country mission. "There's no point in worrying; it all works out," he said.
Even the difficult moments, like the time a few days ago when a big rig blew him and his bike up against a guard rail, don't slow him down. "You can't stress things in life. You'll always get through it. It will all work out."
One of Johnson's biggest surprises came last week when he rode into Escalante, Garfield County. Using cups, someone had spelled out on a fence, "Good luck, Kevin," with pink breast-cancer ribbons flanking each side.
Johnson said he literally broke down when he saw the message and sobbed like a baby, overwhelmed with happiness.
But he had to tell someone, so he called Trisha Pickerel. The Sacramento, Calif., woman, who also lost her mother to breast cancer, acts as his "captain" or "travel agent" by coordinating lodging and meals for his journey.
"The word is out," Pickerel told him when he called. "Kevin M. Johnson is riding across America! Everyone believes in you and why you're doing this!"
Johnson has never met the people who made the sign, but he will never forget their encouraging message.
And he won't forget the motorcycle family somewhere in Nevada who paid for his dinner. "It was nice. It was all-you-can-eat pizza," he said with a smile.
Family and friends in Newark, Calif., describe Rosemary Johnson as kind, caring and an active mom who even wrote out cards to each of her children for all of their future milestones.
But her time was cut short. After an eight-year remission, her breast cancer returned in 1999 and spread. This time, her cancer would be diagnosed as terminal. Still, according to family friend Jacquie "Momma" Laskey, Kevin Johnson would say things like, "Mom, have a good treatment," and "Don't worry, I'll pray for you," and then would rush home — after staying with her during treatment — to vacuum the house before she returned from the hospital.
"He just loved life with her," said his father, John Johnson, 55, "They were really close."
Kevin Johnson always believed that he could do more for his mother. And that's when he came up with the idea to ride across the country on a trek of 3,781 miles from San Francisco to Yorktown, Va., to honor her and to raise money for breast-cancer research.
Thus, "3,781 Miles for a Cure" was born. He hopes to finish the journey Aug. 15.
After Johnson completes his "3,781" journey, he and Pickerell plan to chronicle Johnson's adventures and their experiences in a book.
When asked about the difficulty of his journey, Kevin Johnson downplays it. "I've felt like I've already been through the worst part," referring to his mother's death.
"I've got two jerseys," he said, pointing to his mother's name and others on the back of his shirt. "She's got my back and all those other names, too."
John Johnson said he's proud of his son, but isn't getting a lot of sleep these days worrying about him.
"(His mother) is riding with him. She is," he said, then pauses. "Yeah, just the way he's talking … both of them are talking back and forth. It makes me feel fantastic that he is that close to her and that he is doing it."
Kevin Johnson's aunt, Maureen Pollard of Sandy, who had her own battle with breast cancer 16 months ago, believes the journey is a healing one. "It's a tribute to his mom. I think it's a time for him to heal — he was busy with school and basketball and perhaps never grieved for his mom — it's a perfect chance for him to grieve and help others."
Kevin Johnson says his mother's advice to never give up, no matter how bad things get, keeps him going.
"No doctor has ever come in and told me that my time has run out. The thought that must have been going through my mom's mind when she was told this is what drives me to never give up. I am grateful to feel maybe 1 percent of the pain (she and others) felt. I am strong because they were and are strong. I will never give up!"
For more information on "3,781 Miles for a Cure," visit www.3781miles.org.